Get a cup of coffee and get comfortable as you listen to the first of this three-part series on finding rest in marriage. Marriage is a sanctifying process used by God to grow and refine two imperfect people. Are you fighting in your marriage? Pastor Lloyd says that's good, because you (and your children) are learning conflict resolution. Do you struggle to understand your spouse? That's good too because you are learning to turn to the Creator and live within the framework He has given.